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The notion of promoting social-emotional development and mental health is not new to Head Start. In his 1979 critique of the Head Start Program, Edward Zigler, one of its founders stated, "We should have never allowed the intelligence (IQ) score to become the ultimate indicator of compensatory education's success or future...The goal of Head Start is the production of socially competent human beings."
The development of social competence and school readiness is of paramount concern to our society. Social and economic changes in the country are posing challenges to parents as they attempt to balance spending quality time with their children with making a living and protecting them from environmental risks affecting their health and development.
As a national laboratory, Head Start has always been a leader in the field of early childhood, recognizing the needs of low-income young children and acknowledging the impediments that need to be addressed to help them learn and grow. Children's school experience is more positive and productive when they have a sense of personal well-being and when they are grounded in stable, caring relationships in their early lives. Unhappy, fearful, or angry children are preoccupied with their struggles and their pain. This makes them unable to give their full attention and engagement to learning experiences.
Mental health needs exist on a continuum. Services to address those needs can range from activities and interventions designed to help children develop self-confidence; to interventions for children dealing with socio-economic disadvantages and social disorganization, abuse, and family disruptions; to diagnosed disabilities and health challenges. The relatively new field of infant mental health brings a multi-disciplinary perspective that enhances our understanding of infant competency, the parent/infant relationship, child development, and risk and protective factors that affect development, assessment, prevention, and intervention. This perspective seeks to enhance a family's strengths while addressing those circumstances that can threaten it.
The impacts of poverty, substance abuse, violence, physical and sexual abuse, and teen pregnancy are undeniable. Early Head Start and Head Start can help facilitate the unfolding of healthy self-esteem and internal regulation. They can teach how to tolerate, experience, and modulate deeply felt emotions-skills that lead to social competence and the capacity to participate in a learning environment.
Some key social skills are respecting the rights of others, relating to peers without being too submissive or too overbearing, being willing to give and receive support, and treating others the way one would like to be treated. Recent early childhood research, such as From Neurons to Neighborhoods and the Surgeon General's Report on Children's Mental Health, has demonstrated that developing social skills are seriously affected by the infant or young child's early experiences and the quality of early relationships. What Early Head Start and Head Start staff members do in a variety of settings and with a variety of populations can have a monumental effect on families and on society. We know that the chances of favorable outcomes, particularly when working with extremely vulnerable, emotionally damaged populations, are increased when we create nurturing, responsive environments and well-informed, well-planned interventions based on current knowledge and outcomes-based research.
As Head Start continues to encourage increased knowledge and advanced credentials within its programs, staff must also bring an increased sensitivity, awareness, sophistication, and skill level in addressing creatively the mental health needs of our children and families. The emotional needs of children and families dealing with serious life issues require a new level of emotional commitment and strength from the staff who works with them. Staff members who work with families dealing with challenging situations need to identify and reinforce their strengths, celebrate their successes, and build on the positive relationships and experiences that Head Start provides. This, in turn, demands that administrators and program supervisors provide adequate training, supervision, and emotional support for staff facing the challenge of remaining emotionally present in the face of tremendous stress, emotional pain, and challenging behaviors.
The articles in this issue of the Head Start Bulletin describe some of the most current interventions and issues affecting pregnant women, father involvement, and children birth to five, as well as some innovative program models. The Head Start Bureau and its collaborative partners are committed to reinforcing the message that mental health does not just refer to interactions between patients and therapists but to the quality of relationships in our centers and the confidence we feel in successfully creating happiness in our lives. The ways that we use curriculum to support emotional connections, the honest acknowledgement of strengths and challenges, and how we support and encourage staff all reflect Head Start's mandate to create atmospheres of social competence and mental health. We invite you to consider how your program might be able to incorporate some of the successes described here to improve the lives of your children and families. In this Bulletin, we also introduce you to Windy Hill, the Associate Commissioner for the Head Start Bureau. Windy has been involved with Head Start for many years, as a child in the program and as a parent, and she is a strong advocate for all that is best for Head Start children, families, and staff.
Beverly Gould was a 2000-2001 Head Start Fellow. T: 202-554-0484; E: priyadarsa@aol.com.
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A Welcome To Associate
Commissioner Windy Hill
Windy M. Hill was named the Associate
Commissioner for the Head Start Bureau on January 7, 2002.
She brings a lifetime of involvement and commitment to the
principles of the Head Start Program. As a child, she was
enrolled in Head Start in Bastrop, Texas. Her child was also
enrolled in the program. She has served as a parent
representative on the center's policy council and later
was part of the community group that developed and received a
Head Start grant. Prior to joining the Head Start Bureau,
since 1993, Associate Commissioner Hill served as Executive
Director of Cen-Tex Family Services, Inc. which administers
nine Head Start centers in a four-county region of central
Texas.
At the Region 12 Migrant and Seasonal
Head Start Annual Conference held in March 2002, Associate
Commissioner Hill affirmed the initiatives affecting Head
Start that include fatherhood, positive youth development,
literacy, faith-based, and the rural initiatives. She
explained, "We see these initiatives as tools to deliver
better outcomes for Head Start children and their
families."
Associate Commissioner Hill described
the President's early childhood initiative at the NHSA
conference in Phoenix in April 2002, "The
President's Good Start, Grow Smart initiative will help
states and local communities strengthen early learning for
young children to make sure that they have the skills they
need to start school ready to learn–to ensure that No
Child Is Left Behind. To strengthen Head Start's school
readiness efforts, the Administration will support the
development of appropriate standards of learning in early
literacy, language, and numeracy skills." She explained
that "Good Start, Grow Smart is about making sure that
programs have the support, guidance, and leadership that
ensures quality Head Start environments; healthy, successful
children; and empowered parents."
Associate Commissioner Hill is very
committed to the Head Start vision. "I have experienced
Head Start from different vantage points and seen how it has
benefited my life and the life of my daughter. These
experiences have taught me the value of Head Start and the
importance of putting children first." Welcome Associate
Commissioner Windy Hill.
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The Infant Mental Health
Approach
From their first moments, infants are
busy building an emotional and social life.
by Gambi White-Tennant and Gerard Costa
When the Infant Mental Health (IMH)
Specialist walks into the playroom, she sees Karina and her
mother Karen. Six-month-old Karina sits in her infant seat on
the table and Karen sits in a chair. They both face the door.
Karen reads a magazine as Karina gazes at the side of her
face. The IMH Specialist softly says, "Karina, is Karen
the prettiest mommy you've ever seen?" Karen looks
up and smiles at the IMH Specialist. The IMH Specialist then
says, "Did you see how lovingly Karina was looking at
you?" Karen laughs and tickles Karina's belly,
saying, "You're such a silly baby!" Karina and
her mother exchange sounds and giggles as the IMH Specialist
looks on.
The home visitors happily chat over
the complimentary breakfast that the agency provides for
their meeting every Friday morning. They are also getting
ready for their meeting with the Mental Health Consultant
(MHC). Every Friday the MHC meets with the home visitors as a
group and then holds a reflective supervision session with
the home visitor supervisor. The supervisor, in turn,
conducts individual supervision sessions with the home
visitors. Everyone looks forward to Fridays because they feel
appreciated, taken care of, and important.
These scenarios are typical of any
infant/toddler program that provides mental health services.
Mental health services for pregnant women, infants and
toddlers, and their families can take many forms, depending
on the program and the families (e.g., consulting with staff,
consulting with children and families, providing direct
mental health services, etc.). Regardless of how mental
health services are delivered, the understanding of mental
health is the same: prevention first, promotion always, and
intervention when necessary.
Before making recommendations and
decisions to guide the mental health services in a program,
the first step is to understand infant mental health. This
article will illustrate the infant mental health approach by
providing a historical and philosophical context, identifying
infant mental health guiding principles, and outlining
examples of infant mental health program features.
Infants and Mental
Health
The term "infant mental health" conjures up odd
images for many-even for those people who have worked for
years in early childhood settings. Some have never considered
the words "infant" and "mental health"
together. Some think of the negative and stigmatizing
meanings of "mental health" and are surprised that
infants can have mental health problems. Unfortunately, some
view mental health as a human quality or a field of work that
is concerned with deficits in people.
Infant mental health affirms that mental
health is a positive aspect of human development (although we
address problems when they arise) and the field of mental
health is both proactive and reactive-hence the prevention,
promotion, and intervention approaches noted earlier.
From their first moments, infants are
busy building an emotional and social life. Infants'
emotional development forms basic notions about the self and
the world. Development in all other areas-cognition,
communication, and motor skills-is organized by the emotional
development of the child. Most importantly, the infant's
development begins and continues within the context of an
emotional relationship. As Donald Winnicott (1987), famed
pediatrician turned child analyst stated, there is no such
thing as an infant alone. We must always consider the
infant/caregiver relationship. Emotional life is
fundamentally a relational life. We must always view infants
in the context of their earliest attachment relationships.
This relational focus is relevant throughout early
childhood-and throughout life.
Infant Mental Health as a
Field
The process whereby infants and parents attach or have
difficulty attaching to each other, and the factors that
influence this dynamic and vulnerable process constitute the
field of infant mental health. It is an interdisciplinary
field that studies the optimal emotional, social, physical,
communicative, and motor development of infants within the
context of their earliest primary relationships.
Selma Fraiberg (1987), Social Worker and
Child Analyst at the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor, is
credited as the founder of infant mental health as a distinct
field of intervention. She founded the Child Development
Project at Ann Arbor which created influential ways of
understanding and treating problems in the infant/parent
relationship-most notably the notion that all work must be
dyadic, meaning that the dyad, or pair, to always consider is
that of the infant and parent. This gave rise to unique
methods of intervention, particularly infant/parent
psychotherapy and home-based services (sometimes called
"kitchen-based" therapy, see article on page 39).
This emphasis on the relationship, rather than on the child
or parent alone, forever changed the methods used in
understanding and helping infants and their families.
While students and professionals who
study and work with infants and their families come from many
different fields, there are certain principles that guide
this work for everyone.
Guiding Principles
- The human
infant comes into the world with remarkable capacities for human
relatedness-with Attachment Promoting Behaviors (APBs)-that help invite,
inform, and regulate relationships with the caregiver. From the earliest
moments, infants require consistency, stability, predictability, availability,
and attuned love.
- The period
of life from birth to three is a sensitive period of development for the
formation of character or personality. The greatest period of brain
development, the brain "growth spurt", occurs from the last trimester of
pregnancy through the first 18 months of life. During this period,
nutritional, physical, social, and emotional satisfactions and failures will
be "biologized," meaning that actual changes occur in the physical and
chemical structures in the brain.
- Pregnancy
and childbirth are powerful conscious and unconscious reminders in the parent
of childhood issues that can help or hinder the parent in responding to,
caring for, and loving the infant. In every birth, the infant can serve as a
powerful transference object for the parent-meaning that thoughts, feelings,
and beliefs about other figures and events in the parent's past can become
associated and confused with the infant. Pregnancy, birth, and the first two
years of maternal care require the availability of psychological resources,
emotional support, and parent/infant psychotherapy. Parenting is a
relationship, not a skill, and the belief that parenting can be "taught" as we
do other skills is not clearly supported.
- Those of
us who work with infants and their parents also have our own emotional
histories that influence how we work with families-especially those families
where infants are not adequately cared for or are hurt. We are not immune from
the same psychological forces that influence the parent/child relationship.
Infant mental health requires that these feelings be addressed. Delivery
systems and child protective agencies must provide protected time for
intensive and rigorous staff training and ongoing regular supervision.
- The nature
of the infant/parent relationship is best understood within the setting of the
family home because the context of family events (eating, sleeping, relating,
nurturing) as well as the alternate ways parents communicate to us (through
pictures, objects and toys, family stories and memories) are rooted in the
family home.
- The
infant/parent relationship emerges within a unique set of
cultural and economic factors that provides a historical
and practical context to the family and to the
intervention. Infant care, expression of affection, use of
health care, and relationships with mental health
professionals are strongly influenced by these
factors.
As we consider ways to integrate
principles of infant mental health into Early Head Start and
Head Start programs, we should consider the following
points-
- Understanding infant mental health and
working with a relationship-based approach are skills that are not exclusive
to mental health professionals. These skills belong to all of us who work with
infants and their families. Teachers, pediatricians, speech therapists,
occupational therapists, bus drivers, nutritional staff, and all others within
the Head Start family can learn ways to implement IMH practices.
- There are many strategies of
intervention, including building an alliance with families
and providing services and systems advocacy;
developmental/parental guidance; supportive counseling; and
more specialized services of infant/parent assessment and
dyadic psychotherapy.
Integrating IMH practices into Early Head
Start and Head Start programs does not mean that everyone
must now become a psychotherapist. Those who wish to develop
these specialized mental health skills can participate in the
growing number of graduate and post-graduate programs being
developed throughout the United States. It does, however,
mean that awareness of infant mental health and the
importance of working in a relationship-based way with
families must be supported through training, supervision, and
consultation to ensure that the guiding principles are
achievable.
To incorporate these principles, programs
should consider several strategies to become more infant
mental health centered.
Infant Mental Health Program
Features
The following features for an infant mental health program
are typically implemented by using the program's internal
capacity to provide mental health consultation or through
collaboration with external consultants from local agencies.
Any combination of employee or consultant services can be
used. The design depends on the strengths and needs of the
children, families, and staff, as well as on the
program's human and fiscal resources.
When staff identifies children needing
mental health assessment or services, a mental health
professional can provide direct consultation to the children
and families. This can be accomplished through playgroups
that may include parents. These groups assist children in the
initial learning of social skills, such as the capacity to
wait, take turns, read the cues of adults and peers, and
accept support from others. Groups with parents and their
young children allow time for parents to enjoy their children
and learn to play with them in sensitive and attuned ways.
Staff is able to observe the interaction between the
caregiver and child, assess the need for intervention, and
model emotional presence and ways of handling emotionally
challenging behaviors. This consultant would communicate and
maintain documentation with the appropriate staff and parents
as well as maintain communication with teachers and parents
to support the outcomes of the intervention.
Another option is to provide direct
consultation services to the program staff. This can take the
form of regular reflective supervision with the staff members
who have direct contact with children and families, or
supervision of the supervisors, strengthening their ability
to provide support and technical expertise to their staff.
Within this context, challenging classroom interactions or
difficult family situations can be discussed in depth. In
this model, the primary focus is on providing training to
staff rather than clinical services to the children and
families.
Staff members who are trained to conduct
developmental screenings and psychological assessments and to
create developmental plans also provide valuable consultative
services in Early Head Start and Head Start programs. Through
the use of insights gained through formal and informal
assessments, staff and parents can develop a deeper
understanding of their child's behavior and needs.
Collaborations with local agencies,
clinics, hospitals, and universities providing services to
the Early Head Start and Head Start population can be formed
or expanded. Students being trained as professionals within
the variety of disciplines that make up infant and preschool
mental health can be a valuable source of providing
counseling services and playgroups as well as formal
assessments.
As you design or make improvements to
your IMH program keep the following in mind-
- The design must fit the strengths and
needs of the children and families.
- The program's resources must be able
to support the design or outside resources should be cultivated.
- Contracted services are only as good
as the contract's content.
- Communication is vitally important to
the success of the program.
Paraprofessionals and professionals
involved must have a piece of the family picture.
These are exciting times for families and
those of us who work with them. Programs that invest in
knowledge and skill development will yield priceless
dividends for both families and staff. Our goal is to regard
every infant and family with respect, consideration, and
empathy to better support their loving and attuned
relationships. n
References
Brazelton, T.B. 1992. Touchpoints:
The essential reference. Reading, MA:
Addison-Wesley/Lawrence.
Costa, G. 1996. Guiding principles in
infant mental health and their implications. Keynote Address.
New Jersey Association for Infant Mental Health.
Fraiberg, S. 1987. The clinical
dimensions of baby games. In Selected writings of Selma
Fraiberg, ed. L. Fraiberg. Columbus: Ohio State
University Press.
Stern, D. & N. Bruschweiler-Stern.
1998. The birth of a mother. New York: Basic
Books.
Winnicott, D. 1987. Babies and their
mothers. New York: Addison-Wesley Publishing Co.
Gambi White-Tennant is an Infant
Toddler Specialist at NYU Steinhardt School of Education,
Head Start Quality Improvement Center. T: 212-998- 5550; E:
gambi. whitetennant@nyu.edu. Gerard Costa is the
Director for the Institute for Training in Infant &
Preschool Mental Health, Youth Consultation Service. T:
973-483-2532; E:
gcosta@ycs.org.
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Relationship As
Curriculum
"Child care must be understood as a profound influence
on the lives of children, not as a service to parents like
ATM machines." Dr. Gil Foley, Ed.D.
by Linda Lloyd-Jones
At the Zero to Three National Training
Institute in Washington, D.C. in December 2000, Dr. Gil Foley
suggested that we are engaged in a vast social experiment-the
venue and style of child rearing are being dramatically
altered. For the first time, large numbers of children are
being cared for by non-family members who have a professional
rather than personal investment in them. Millions of babies
are now in child care, some for 50 hours a week or more. How
do we as early childhood professionals provide care for young
children that meets their most basic human needs?
Regardless of the setting, the experts
agree that the primary need of infants and toddlers is
emotional connection. Relationships are the key and emotional
development is the critical domain. As Dr. Foley said,
"Child care must be organized to protect, sustain, and
support emotional development. What is most at risk for
children in care outside the home is the development of the
capacity for relationships and endeavoring sense of inner
security and spark of self that are spawned in
relationships."
This view is also expressed in the
current report, From Neurons to Neighborhoods. In
the executive summary, we learn that research has
"generated a much deeper appreciation of the emotional
role of early relationships as a source of either support and
adaptation or risk and dysfunction. Complex emotions have
powerful capabilities for the development of the essential
social skills during the earliest years of life." Given
the essential nature of deep emotional relatedness, how are
we to capture these most profound and formative human
experiences of infancy and toddlerhood in the context of a
curriculum?
What does curriculum mean? According to
the Head Start Program Performance Standards, curriculum is a
written plan that indicates goals for children's
development and learning, the experiences through which they
will achieve these goals, how staff and parents will help
them achieve these goals, and the materials that are needed
to support these goals.
The needs of babies in group care are the
same as those of babies at home-a safe, secure, and
predictable environment; routines that are dictated by their
own unique patterns and rhythms; and the presence of a
primary caregiver who loves them. This caregiver needs to be
attuned to the baby and able to recognize the baby's
signals and respond appropriately. These are aspects of a
good home environment that group care should replicate. As
Dr. Foley put it, "The environment itself should be as
home-like as possible. It should be designed to be nurturing
and informal, in support of the experiences and interactions
between children, caregivers, and families."
A misconception about the use of a
written curriculum for infant/toddler care is that it will
lead to the notion that quality care should be based on a
school model rather than a home model. There is a certain
pressure to define quality care as skills based and focused
on cognitive development. Existing curricula look at
infant/toddler development in separate domains (cognitive,
gross motor, fine motor, language, and social-emotional) and
set goals and objectives for babies in each of these domains.
But, a rigid, fragmented perspective to infant/toddler
curricula is not in the spirit of the Performance Standards.
The standards clearly indicate that social and emotional
development is to be encouraged by-
- enhancing each child's individual
strengths;
- providing a setting that allows for
building trust;
- fostering independence;
- having realistic expectations;
- encouraging respect for feelings and
for the rights of others;
- supporting and respecting a child's
home language and culture; and
- planning routines and transitions so
that they occur in a timely, predictable, and unrushed
manner, according to each child's needs. (See
Performance Standard 1304.21 [A] [3].)
These mandates enumerated in the
Performance Standards cannot truly be accomplished in any
other way but within the context of a relationship attuned to
the individual child.
Babies in group care live there. They
live with caregivers and other babies and children while
their parents are temporarily away. When looking at what
constitutes quality care for infants and toddlers, think of
it in terms of quality of life. What are the
minute-by-minute, day-to-day experiences of babies in care
and how does this stack up against a "good natural home
environment?" One feature that distinguishes home from
school is that the home does not have a rigid set of
activities. Even though home has basic routines and
predictability, in between the necessary daily activities
that families engage in are long leisurely periods when
people do the activities that reflect their priorities within
the protective shelter of love.
The strong and secure attachment that
infants and toddlers need to share with their primary
caregivers is described as a secure home base by noted child
psychoanalyst, Margaret Mahler (1975). From this home base,
infants and toddlers can venture out to explore their
environments, engage with others, experiment, and problem
solve. This secure home base, where children can relate to
and connect with their primary caregiver as they need, has to
be the central focus of any curriculum. It is through and in
the context of relationships that infants and toddlers learn
how to be in the world.
According to research described by Dr.
Ronald Lally (1997), an Early Head Start collaborator in the
Program for Infants and Caregivers, infants and toddlers
develop their sense of who they are from the adults who care
for them. They learn from their caregivers what to fear, what
behaviors are appropriate, and how their communications are
received and acted upon.
They learn how successful they are at
getting their needs met by others, what emotions and
intensity levels of emotions to safely display, and how
interesting others find them.
None of these can be taught with a narrow
focus on the behavioral aspects of curriculum, but are
learned through awareness in relationships.
Children everywhere are becoming
themselves and experiencing their feelings in increasingly
complex ways during infancy and toddlerhood. Identity
formations occur and it is the relationship with babies
rather than the activities planned for them that profoundly
affects the child's sense of self and emotional
development. Beneficial environments, high quality toys and
equipment, and a variety of developmentally appropriate
activities are, of course, desirable in infant and toddler
care. But, the only indispensable aspect of quality care is
the relationship between babies and their caregivers. All the
activities and materials in the world will not make up for
the lack of bonded, loving relationships.
So what should be done to ensure quality
of care? One idea is to expand the focus on curriculum for
babies to include a curriculum for grown-ups. Dr. Lally has
provided curricula for training staff that focus on helping
caregivers develop attachments with babies. This program
emphasizes watching, asking, and adapting as the steps to
follow when interacting with infants and toddlers.
A curriculum will set goals and
objectives for adults who care for babies. For example, one
goal may be that caregivers will learn and demonstrate skills
that promote children's curiosity. The effects will be
seen in the happy, well-adjusted, and active children who
feel free to explore their environment. Helping caregivers
learn to engage in authentic, deep, loving relationships with
infants and toddlers is something that must be done for the
long-term benefit of social and emotional competence.
We need to turn caregivers' attention
away from planning what babies will do all day in care and
onto what their babies are actually doing all day. Noted
infant specialist Jeree Pawl (1998) offers this wise advice,
"Don't just do something, stand there and pay
attention." We should watch and observe our babies much
more closely. What are they doing? How are they playing? What
are they trying to achieve? Ask them who they are, what they
need, how they can be helped. Then listen and watch for the
answer and let that guide what we choose to do with our
babies. In this way the baby will truly direct his or her
care. The baby will lead.
This is hard work for caregivers. To
truly attend to and "be there" emotionally for
babies is not a skill, but a way of being. Engaging in
loving, responsive relationships with each individual baby
while at the same time fully supporting the family/child
relationship is a tall order. It requires that caregivers
have a depth and breadth of knowledge about infant and
toddler development; a high degree of self-awareness; a
wellspring of emotional resources; and intense dedication to
the well-being of other people's children. As a society
we do not yet sufficiently value the people who take on this
responsibility, nor do we give them the support they need.
This is an area where Head Start and Early Head Start can
take the lead as a national laboratory for best practice.
Alison Clarke-Steward (1993) stated that
one of the primary goals for child care is to facilitate a
happy childhood. When we focus fully on training and
supporting caregivers to love their babies and be responsive
to their needs, this will allow for the optimal expression of
each infant's needs and abilities in a curriculum. Babies
in the hearts and hands of such caregivers have a real chance
for a happy childhood and the development of social and
emotional competence. Loving, responsive, and well-trained
caregivers will know how to meet their babies' needs
because they will listen to what their babies are telling
them and respond from the heart.
References
Clarke-Stewart, A. 1993.
Daycare: Rev. Ed. Cambridge: Harvard University Press.
Foley, G. 2000.
Child care from a trandisciplinary
perspective: A relationship centered approach.
Presentation at the Zero to Three National Training
Institute, Washington, D.C., December 1-3, 2000.
Lally, J.R. 1997. Curriculum and
lesson planning: A responsive approach. Unpublished
manuscript. Sausalito, CA: WestEd.
Mahler, M., F. Pine & A. Bergman.
1975. The psychological birth of the human infant:
Symbiosis and individualization. New York: Basic
Books.
Pawl, J. & M. St. John. 1998. How
you are is as important as what you do. Washington,
D.C.: ZERO TO THREE/ National Center for Clinical Infant
Programs.
Shonkoff, J. & D. Phillips, eds.
2000. From neurons to neighborhoods. Washington,
D.C.: National Academy Press.
Linda Lloyd-Jones is an Early Head
Start Teacher, Teen Aide High School, LYFE-Early Head Start.
T: 718-935-9836; E:
JLloyd8475@aol.com.

Daily Separations and
Reunions
Daily separations and reunions are part
of the fabric of relationships. In center-based programs,
they provide opportunities to develop a young child's
skill at making positive transitions.
by Libby Zimmerman
From birth, positive give and take in
relationships fosters social and emotional well-being and
resilience. Secure relationships are particularly important
for a very young child's language development, problem
solving, social interaction, and emotional regulation. The
patterns of interpersonal exchanges during the early years
have significance for the developing brain, including the
development of a young child's sense of self, as well as
what the child thinks, remembers, and feels. Researchers have
found that although brains are impressive in their continuing
ability to change and adapt throughout the life cycle, early
relationships are significant in influencing future
development.
Relationships described as "secure
attachments" involve identifying and enhancing positive
emotional states such as joy and elation and identifying and
supporting painful emotional states such as fear, sadness,
and anger. Hellos and goodbyes-times when young
children's emotions are often heightened-provide golden
opportunities to build and enhance relationships. It is
important to take into account the reality that parents and
professionals often experience intense emotions themselves
and are influenced by their past experience with comings and
goings from loved ones.
In Early Head Start and Head Start
center-based programs, reunions and separations happen
simultaneously. Every morning, young children separate from
their parent and reunite with their teacher. Every evening,
young children separate from their teacher and reunite with
their parent. Since the mental health of young children
depends on the emotional well-being of the adults who care
for them, providing support for the adults is equally as
important as providing support for the children.
The pattern of give and take that occurs
among young children and their parents and teachers shapes
how children feel about themselves. Both infants and adults
contribute to the quality of the relationship. Some patterns
lead to a child's sense of safety and well-being. For
example, an adult who generally responds to the specific
emotions and non-verbal requests of an infant by remaining
emotionally present and focused while not being intrusive
helps a child to feel noticed and valued. As infants grow
older, their contributions evolve from non-verbal signals to
a mixture of non-verbal and verbal signals as the adults'
verbal responses become more detailed.
Misunderstandings are inevitable in the
course of the normal give and take between young children and
adults. The key component in secure relationships is the
ability to repair a misunderstanding. For example, when a
mother realizes that her nine-month-old is fussy because he
wants her to look at the light on the ceiling, not at the toy
on the shelf, she will be rewarded by a delighted smile and
squeal as she redirects her attention to the light, smiles,
and begins to talk about it with him.
How children express emotion during
hellos and goodbyes evolves with age and with their length of
time in a program. A newly enrolled three-month-old baby
rarely says goodbye in a pronounced way; however, she might
withdraw or take time to observe another baby rather than
engage with a toy or person. This apparent lack of response
may be difficult for some parents to understand. Loud
protests are taken as a more common sign of connection.
Older infants (six to nine months of
age), toddlers, and preschoolers might say goodbye with cries
of protest when they begin a new program or they might walk
in with a smile and a wave goodbye. Each response merits the
teacher's and parent's acknowledgement and
affirmation.
Separations and reunions are stressful
for the adult, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
Acknowledging the adult's emotions, whatever they might
be, mitigates the stress. Supervisors and peers can provide
this for the teacher and the teacher can support the parent,
as can other parents. A parent's feelings might range
from sadness and fear about separating to relief and elation
about having time away.
Saying goodbye to a crying or withdrawn
child might make a parent sad. Finding and talking to another
parent in the hall who is also feeling sad or finding it hard
to say goodbye can be comforting. At other times the
educational coordinator or site manager might be the right
person to chat with for a few moments.
Staff members generally report that by
the end of the first month in a center-based program, even
young infants look to the teacher for comfort and stimulation
and indicate preferences through calling to, looking at, and
wriggling with delight towards specific staff. Teachers are
rewarded by these interactions and by their ability to
comfort a crying child. However, some children who are
temperamentally slow to warm up may not demonstrate delight
for a long period of time. They also may be quick to cry when
they are getting to know a new person. Supervisors and peers
can support the teachers through this process by
acknowledging their feelings of frustration or anxiety.
Over time, young children begin to
express joy in reunions with their teacher. How staff and
parents interact can support the well-being of the adults as
well as the child. When nine-month-old Leah leans out of her
mother's arms with a broad smile on her face and eagerly
goes to the teacher in the morning, her mother smiles warmly
and says, "Oh, you are happy to see Sarah." Many
mothers appreciate the pleasure their children experience in
their expanding social world. However, some parents might
feel concerned or anxious about whether their baby still
loves them.
The teacher can have a pivotal role in
reassuring the parent that the baby has room for more than
one significant relationship and keeps each person
"straight" in his or her own mind. The teacher can
point out how the baby might wriggle or crawl towards the
parent when he arrives, or help a parent understand that an
older child might need time to reconnect through playing or
reading a book before going home.
Infants, toddlers, and young children may
cry when they separate from their parent. At times the
separation from the parent may not be done in an optimal way
and even exacerbate the child's distress. Here is an
example of how a teacher in Early Head Start responded to the
distress of a young child in a way that built her
relationship with the toddler and her parent and affirmed the
child's relationship to both adults.
Darlene, two years of age, bundled up in
a snowsuit, hat, and scarf, arrives crying at the gate to the
infant/toddler room in the arms of her mother. The mother, in
a rush that morning, hands Darlene to a teacher standing at
the other side of the gate. The mother dashes off after
quickly saying goodbye.
The teacher says, "Goodbye, see you
later." The teacher brings the child to a cozy corner
with large animals. Darlene stays in the teacher's arms
and sobs. The teacher talks to her gently saying,
"It's okay, mommy will be back after work." The
teacher's first overture to take off Darlene's hat
and scarf are met with louder sobbing. The teacher holds
Darlene and continues holding her, reassuring her that it is
okay to feel sad and angry and reminding her that her
favorite giraffe is waiting to play. Within a minute,
Darlene's sobs begin to subside and she lets the teacher
take off her hat, scarf, and snowsuit. Within the next
minute, she is calm and explores a giraffe sitting next to
the teacher.
With preschool children, we might begin
to wish they would not cry or cling. We may see the tears as
a failure rather than as an opportunity for connection.
Parents and program staff struggle with fears that it may be
"bad for the child" if we respond immediately to a
crying child, especially a boy. In fact, boys, as well as
girls, need to know that they can express their feelings, be
comforted by caregivers, and develop their own coping
mechanisms.
Whatever a child's emotional state
might be, the quality of interaction between all the
participants influences a child's sense of well-being
when saying goodbye to a parent and hello to a teacher.
Susi, a little over three years of age,
arrives walking and holding her father's hand. Susi and
her father enter the room and the father greets the teachers.
He kneels down and helps Susi take off her snowsuit, hat, and
scarf, talking to her about what he is doing. A teacher comes
over and talks to them and asks how Susi's morning was
and the father describes what they ate. Susi stays close to
her father as he hangs up her clothes and puts some things in
her cubby. Susi observes what the teachers and other children
are doing and smiles when a teacher invites her to come and
sit and read a book with her and several other children. The
father walks over with her and stays while she settles in and
then says goodbye. Susi waves goodbye to her father and the
teacher says, "Bye Dad, we will see you later." The
father leaves and Susi sits close to the teacher, focusing on
the pictures in the book. In a minute or two, Susi gets up
and walks over to the housekeeping corner and begins
"cooking" with a friend.
Although many parents and staff know that
even young infants are aware of comings and goings, at times
it still might be tempting to leave without saying
goodbye-generally at a moment when the child is engaged in
play or snuggling in the teacher's arms. The
understandable goal is to prevent a child's protests and
tears. However, the hidden cost is a missed opportunity for
the child to develop the skills necessary for making positive
transitions. Over time, adults' comforting helps children
learn to comfort themselves.
Tips For Programs
Supporting emotionally meaningful
separations and reunions
- Provide parents with access to staff
after saying goodbye to their children. If a baby was crying when the parent
left, the parent might be comforted by talking to the teacher or the director
and hearing how the baby is doing.
- Spending time in the morning observing
the classroom can give the parent a concrete image of other babies in the arms
of caregivers singing and talking and reminding the babies that "mama or dada
will be back later."
- Create a welcoming environment for
parents so that they can enter the room, help children get settled, connect
with a teacher, and hang out at the end of day. These moments allow the staff
and parents to interact and share their feelings and knowledge of the child.
- Arrange for and invite parents to
regular (monthly) parent/staff meetings to talk about their children and hear
how other parents and children are doing.
- Provide regular, reflective
supervision so staff can discuss their emotions and
responses to children and parents.
Libby Zimmerman is a Senior Early
Childhood Associate at Early Head Start National Resource
Center @ ZERO TO THREE, E: Lzimmerman@acf.hhs.gov.

Stress and the Developing
Brain
Some people believe that babies and young
children are not affected by events that take place when they
are very young, but what we do in the first three years has a
tremendous impact on children's future development.
by Beverly Gould
Recent research and technological
advances have changed our understanding of the developing
brain. With this new information, parents and educators have
the opportunity to provide children with interactions and
settings that will allow them to reach their greatest
potential. We now have a greater appreciation for the fact
that the early years are a very fertile period in the
child's life. We need to make conscious choices about how
we treat children so that impact can be positive.
Research has demonstrated that there is
an interaction between one's genetic endowment (nature)
and the environment (nurture). Structural, hormonal, and
chemical influences that are present during pregnancy affect
the growth and development of the fetus. As early as three
weeks after conception, a baby's brain cells begin to
form (Berg 1994). These nerve cells then migrate to sections
of the brain that will eventually control the reflexes,
voluntary body movement, perception, language and thought.
These structural changes-the cellular linkages being made-are
unique to each individual infant. The linkages form as a
result of the infant's experiences, both in the womb and
once they are born.
Medical science continues to demonstrate
the far-reaching harmful effects of stress. Stress is defined
as an emotional reaction that elevates cognitive and
physiological activity levels. It places demands upon the
system for physical or cognitive productivity. When those
demands are activated over a period of time, it progresses to
a series of changes leading to exhaustion.
The degree of stress experienced by a
woman while she is pregnant can have a negative affect on the
fetus (Gunnar & Barr 1998). When maternal hormones, such
as corticosterone and tryptophan, become overstimulated due
to her own stressful conditions, there is a harmful chemical
effect on the fetus' brain development.
The adult "fight or flight"
response to stress is not an option for an infant or young
child. Exposure to intense anger, loud screaming, or physical
violence creates fear within the child that floods the brain
with stress hormones. Being left alone and crying when hungry
or wet are also conditions that create fear and stress in a
young child. Various types of unpredictable, traumatic,
chaotic, or neglectful environments physically change the
brain by over-activating the neural pathways. As a result,
there may be an increase in the child's muscle tone,
profound sleep difficulties, an increased startle response,
and significant anxiety. These responses, in turn, can lead
to a permanent state of high alert, a tendency to misperceive
the intentions and behavior of others, and the tendency to
react with aggression.
Conscious memories of the first years of
life are lost but the emotional part of the brain, referred
to as the limbic system, and the body remember (Karr-Morse
& Wiley 1997). An infant's first sense of what the
world is like is recorded in the body. Without intervention,
young children who have experienced high levels of stress
will be at serious risk for emotional, behavioral, and
learning difficulties.
Early Learning
Neuroscientist Dr. James LeDoux (1993) agrees that events
early in life, experienced with strong emotions, can and do
remain an influence throughout our lives. He suggests that
what we feel is processed before what we think. Feelings
experienced precognitively and preverbally continue to play
out in later life even though the individual may have no
conscious memory of the association. A significant trauma
that takes place often or intensely enough can rob a child of
the ability to learn normally by pulling away brain circuitry
meant for other tasks.
An area of the brain, referred to as the
amygdala, is central in understanding how stress affects
learning. The amygdala governs attention, memory, planning,
and behavior-all skills necessary for the child to be able to
take in and process information. Difficulties in attention
often include distractibility and impulsivity, which impair
problem solving. In social situations, children who are
overly active, impulsive, and unable to focus tend to have
trouble reading others' social cues and responding
appropriately to others in the environment.
Role of
Relationships
Research links the external environmental influences on brain
development with the quality of stimulation and degree to
which the caregiver is attuned to the needs of the infant.
Social interaction with an empathetic and attuned caregiver
plays the major role in the growth and regulation of the
child's nervous system and in helping the child develop
the strength needed to become socially competent and able to
learn. The consistent experience of empathy that takes place
with an emotionally available caregiver gradually builds the
child's capacity to empathize with others.
Relationships that a child experiences
provide the foundations for approaches to learning, which,
hopefully, will be enthusiastic, curious, and persistent.
Stanley Greenspan (1997), a noted child psychiatrist,
explains that the capacity to feel a full range of
emotions-learned through relationships-allows children to
organize events and ideas before they have the words to
express them. Children learn how to think by creating ideas
based on their experiences and how it feels to engage in
those experiences. For example, young children become more
focused and interactive through being able to enjoy the
excitement of reciprocal play. The playful and creative give
and take with an emotionally present, verbal adult motivates
the development of language and encourages the child toward
discriminating, generalizing, categorizing, and organizing
her experiences. This is the basis for the ability to think
first concretely and then abstractly.
The Abecedarian Project at the University
of Alabama (Campbell & Ramey 1994) found that when
at-risk young children were exposed to a stimulating
environment, appropriate toys, playmates, and good nutrition,
they developed less mental retardation than the control
group. Early intervention in infancy, when the neurological
circuits for learning are being formed, resulted in higher
IQs in comparison to the control group. The conclusion was
that early enrollment in a high quality, enriched day care
setting is paramount to the children's significant and
long-lasting improvements.
How Head Start Can
Help
Head Start is in a unique position to assist in healthy brain
development.
- Through services to pregnant women,
expectant mothers can be helped to receive pre-natal care, get adequate
nutrition, and be educated about the dangerous effects that drugs and alcohol
have on the developing fetus. During pregnancy, families can be helped to
identify areas of stress and provided with the necessary emotional support and
assistance.
- Parents need to be educated about the
child's need for appropriate stimulation. As caregivers learn to read the
child's cues, undue stress can be avoided. Parents need to understand the
importance of talking and reading to the child, holding a child during
feedings, making eye contact, singing, and playing games that provide novelty
and fun.
- Parents also need to be supported in
maintaining their own mental health. Untreated depression and anxiety
interferes with the parent/child bond and interrupts a parent's ability to be
fully aware of the child's needs.
- Abuse, neglect, and family violence
must be prevented. The population at large needs to be
aware of the devastating impact these things have on
growing children.
In addition to the developmental
assessments required by the Head Start Program Performance
Standards, an assessment of the interaction between the
caregiver and the child can identify relationship issues that
might need mental health intervention. The ability of caring
and well-informed Head Start staff to recognize problems
early can prevent difficulties that would be much more
difficult to remedy later.
Classroom teachers and home visitors play
a crucial role in optimizing healthy brain development.
Infant researcher Ron Lally (1995) points out the key role
the infant/toddler caregiver plays in the development of the
child's sense of identity. Through imitation and
absorption of the environment, children form their sense of
who they are in the world. Helen Raikes (1993) cited the
importance that a relationship between a child and a high
quality teacher plays in "modulating attention, creating
interest, building trust, and assuring predictability for the
infants." This is especially true when the child is
given the time needed with one teacher, as opposed to
multiple interactions from a variety of caregivers. The time
spent building this attachment allows the teacher to
fine-tune her interactions based on her intimate knowledge of
the individual child and his needs and responses. Both
parents and children can be supported in Head Start to
minimize stressful situations that impede healthy
development.
References
Berg, B. 1994. Child neurology: A
clinical manual. Philadelphia: J.B. Lippincott
Company.
Campbell, F.A. & C.T. Ramey. 1994.
Effects of early intervention on intellectual and academic
achievement: A follow-up study of children from low-income
families. Child Development 65: 684-698.
Gunnar, M.R. & R.G. Barr. 1998.
Stress, early brain development, and behavior. Infants
and Young Children 11(1): 1-14.
Greenspan, S. & B. Benderly. 1997.
The growth of the mind: And the endangered origins of
intelligence. Boulder, CO: Perseus Books Group.
Karr-Morse, R. & M. Wiley. 1997.
Ghosts from the nursery. New York: The Atlantic Monthly
Press.
Lally, J.R. 1995. The impact of child
care policies and practices on infant/toddler identity
formation. Young Children 51(1): 58-67.
LeDoux, J. 1993. Emotional memory systems
in the brain. Behavioral Brain Research 58.
Raikes, H. 1993. Relationship duration in
infant care: time with high ability teacher and
infant-teacher attachment. Early Childhood Research
Quarterly 8: 309-325.
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Beverly Gould was a 2000-2001 Head
Start Fellow. T: 202-554-0484; E: priyadarsa@aol.com.

THE PSYCHOLOGICAL WORK OF
PREGNANCY
There is no other activity in a
woman's life that will require her full emotional
presence and involvement as much as raising a child. This is
especially true for the birth of the first child.
by Beverly Gould
The Head Start Program Performance
Standards mandate that family and health care providers offer
services for pregnant women that address both physical and
mental health needs. Head Start is in a position to provide
invaluable support to expectant and new mothers. This article
will explore some of the emotional needs of mothers and
discuss areas for fruitful exploration and intervention to
help in that process. Pregnancy ushers in a tremendous
physical and psychological transformation. Besides the bodily
changes, there are disruptions in basic physiological
processes that affect sleep, appetite, and digestion.
Hormonal surges can affect mood and the ability to think and
to remember. There are also intensely ambivalent emotions and
fantasies about the process of labor and delivery.
A woman also experiences changes in her
sense of self. She has to expand her sense of who she is to
incorporate her child as a part of herself, yet also as a
separate being. The appearance of a child will change her
intimate relationships, such as with extended family members,
as well as her role in society.
Mental Work and
Reworking
In looking at the period surrounding a woman's giving
birth, Daniel Stern (1995) described this as a time when she
must engage in the greatest amount of "mental work and
reworking" in her life. He says that this is especially
true for the birth of the first child since no amount of
babysitting or exposure to siblings can prepare a woman for
the intense empathic connection needed to mother successfully
a child. There is no other activity in a woman's life
that will require her full emotional presence and involvement
as much as raising a child. Stern identifies four concerns
that preoccupy the expectant mother.
First, the expectant mother is afraid of
not being able to maintain the baby's life. She has fears
for her own and the new baby's survival. Once the child
is born, she wonders if she will be able to provide the care
that will allow the infant to grow, progress, and thrive. She
is very vulnerable to the criticism and judgment of others.
Society expects the birth of a new baby to be a happy time.
For many women, even those who are in the most supportive
circumstances, it is conflictual and stressful.
Second, the expectant mother wonders if
she will really be able to feel love for her baby. Will she
feel the bond that society says she is supposed to feel? Will
that bond allow her to develop the special sensitivity that
will allow her to read and respond to her baby's
needs?
The next concern is the expectant
mother's ability to create and maintain an adequate
support network for herself. There are no societal structures
that function in place of the extended family. As a result,
there is greater stress on the father, if he is present, to
provide the emotional support so that the mother will be able
to devote herself to the child. Stern sees inherent dangers
for a mother who has a limited support network and therefore,
limited sources for feedback, information, and emotional
support. She may be seen as an inadequate mother by the
father or the extended family; the father may compete with
the baby for her attention; or the father may compete with
her to be the "better" parent.
A new mother may fear emotional as well
as physical abandonment. In the past, a supportive network of
women who surrounded the mother and baby, keeping males
outside of the protective circle, used to be something that
all women could rely upon. Besides her baby, the new
mother's major involvement would have been with these
maternal figures.
A new mother also reflects on her
relationship to her own mother. This allows her to remember
the intricacies of this first important relationship, and to
form either positive or negative models of parenting to guide
her own behavior.
The fourth concern deals with a
woman's need to rework her sense of identity from
"daughter to mother, companion to parent." A
preoccupation with the memories and emotions connected to the
long line of women throughout the family history causes a
woman to reconsider her beliefs and her choices. Stern says
that this is how the intergenerational transmission of family
values and behaviors occurs.
Babies cannot wait. During their waking
hours, the mother must be able to set aside her own
preoccupations and concerns so that she can be attuned to her
child's needs. The work of Selma Fraiberg (1980) and
other infant researchers tells us that an infant stirs up
many intense, raw emotions that reflect the mother's
unresolved conflicts with her own mother and father.
Reviving Old
Patterns
These "ghosts" from the mother's past can have
an enormous impact on her entire pregnancy experience and on
her ability to connect to her child. Simply having mixed
feelings about being a mother can raise significant conflict
and guilt for women who are not comfortable accepting
emotions typically seen as negative. For example, a woman may
expect her child to be active and controlling, as her own
mother always described her and this would influence the way
she perceives the needs and behaviors of her child. The key
for a healthy relationship between mother and child is for
the mother to be consciously aware of the issues between her
and her mother, thereby avoiding displaced anger or feelings
of abandonment or loss. This will help her not to be
preoccupied with winning or avoiding power struggles as they
arise with her young child.
For those women who have had significant
difficulties growing up or have been the victims of trauma or
abuse, it is important to help them identify the good
qualities of their mother among the difficult memories of
their early lives. The demands of being in the mothering role
can be a terrifying experience for women unable to resolve a
deep-seated belief in their own "badness" or fear
of "turning into their mother." Attempting to
relate to a helpless, crying, demanding, and dependent infant
can trigger old patterns of behavior from the mother's
childhood where she was perceived negatively because of her
own mother's unmet needs and psychological difficulties.
Without awareness of her past and the feelings associated
with the trauma or abuse, she may in fact treat her child the
way she was treated rather than in a more healthy,
protective, and nurturing fashion.
Family Dynamics
A new baby also changes the dynamics between the couple and
within the nuclear family. The father experiences a
significant change in role and identity. In today's
western culture, a father's role is more than financial;
men are expected to take on increasing amounts of
responsibility for the child's emotional and physical
care. A man may feel ambivalence about the changes in his
partner. He may also feel abandoned and excluded as the woman
turns her attention to her pregnancy and new baby. On the
mother's part, it may not be easy to share caretaking
with the father since it has traditionally been the domain of
women. Without awareness, issues of power and control may
arise. As the partners move from being a couple to a family,
all decisions will need to consider the needs and the role of
the child.
Emotional Stress and the
Infant
Current research, particularly the work of Megan Gunnar
(1998), demonstrates the negative effects that emotional
stress has on the developing fetus. Those who provide
services to pregnant women and their families need to help
expectant parents talk openly and fully about positive and
negative feelings associated with pregnancy and their role as
parents, including fears about the pain of childbirth. They
need to explore how the new child will affect their
relationship with extended family and discuss boundary issues
that may arise if a family member is perceived as too
helpful, too distant, or too critical. Important discussions
can occur about the values that each parent holds, such as
around discipline or religious matters. Older siblings also
need to be prepared for the new baby and helped to deal with
the anxious and jealous feelings before and after the
birth.
Women need to be educated about maternal
depression and its consequences for the development of their
child. Support groups for pregnant women, a doula (a labor
and post-childbirth support person), non-medical childbirth
coaching, mother/baby groups, and father/baby groups can be
useful in providing the needed support and in assessing
potential difficulties. Pairing more experienced mothers with
new, young mothers who can mentor and be positive role models
may also be useful.
Teaching parents about the stages of
development allows them to anticipate the joys and challenges
that they will face as their child grows. In those situations
where the mother's emotional difficulties require more
than community support, or a child's temperamental or
constitutional factors lead to a difficult fit between parent
and child, referrals to early intervention or qualified
infant mental health practitioners can be necessary.
Helping our Head Start families become
emotionally prepared during pregnancy can go a long way in
preventing emotional difficulties after the baby is born. We
know that times of change can bring great opportunities. The
birth of a new baby should be a joyful time. For many of our
families who have severe external stressors, such as
financial difficulties, young or unwanted pregnancies,
traumatic abuse, or substance abuse histories, this is a time
when our active intervention can open up unseen possibilities
and provide much needed insight and support.
References
Fraiberg, S. 1980. Clinical
interventions in infant mental health: The first year of
life. New York: Basic Books.
Gunnar, M.R. & R.G. Barr. 1998.
Stress, early brain development, and behavior. Infants
and Young Children 11 (1).
Stern, D. 1995. The motherhood
constellation. New York: Basic Books.
PUTTING THIS TO WORK IN YOUR
CENTER
Steps that programs can take to promote the mental health of
new mothers and fathers-
- Form support groups for pregnant women
to share fears and expectations and educate them about pregnancy, childbirth,
and child development;
- Form activity groups like knitting or
craft groups as a vehicle for support and discussion;
- Pair young mothers with older, more
experienced mothers as mentors;
- Form support groups for fathers;
- Form mother/baby and father/baby
groups to encourage responsive interactions and reciprocal play;
- Use videotapes as a tool in teaching
how to respond to an infant's cues;
- Provide anticipatory guidance showing
new parents what to expect at each phase of development;
- Explore in-depth the themes described
in this article with both parents, whether or not they are
together.
Head Start Program Performance
Standard 1304.40c iii
Early Head Start grantee and delegate agencies must assist
pregnant women to access comprehensive prenatal and
postpartum care, through referrals, immediately after
enrollment in the program. This care must include mental
health interventions and follow-up, including substance abuse
prevention and treatment services, as needed.
Beverly Gould was a Head Start Fellow
(2000-2001). T: 202-554-0484; E: priyadarsa@aol.com.

Buffering the Effects of Maternal
Depression*
Did you know approximately one in ten
women with young children experience depression? Rates often
reach two times this level for mothers living in poverty.
Depression is likely to touch someone in our lives as well in
as the lives of the families we serve.
by Tisha Bennett
Fortunately, some children escape the
negative effects of maternal depression. In a review of
several decades of research, Shonkoff and Phillips (2000)
emphasize that many depressed women do raise children who
demonstrate no social or behavioral difficulties. Some
studies suggest ways to prevent or protect damaging processes
from occurring in young children's lives. Early Head
Start and Head Start programs are in a position to benefit
from this research and intervene to support young children
and their parents who might be experiencing depression. Their
intervention efforts can be guided by research findings
related to the complexity of maternal depression, the effects
of maternal depression on young children, and the importance
of prevention and early intervention.
The Complexity of Maternal
Depression
Depressed mothers typically have difficulty providing optimal
levels of stimulation for their babies. Mothers who suffer
from untreated depression engage in two distinctive
interaction styles with their infants (Field 2000). One style
is characterized by the caregiver's withdrawal from the
infant's cries or smiles, minimal display of facial
expression, and difficulty expressing emotion or even talking
to the infant. The other style is characterized by the
caregiver's irritability, expressions of anger, and
demands for a reaction from the child. It is unclear as to
why mothers with depression display these differing
interaction profiles; one, withdrawn, the other, intrusive.
But, it is clear that each style is painful for the adult.
One mother described the feeling of "moving through
water" to reach her crying infant.
Effects on Young
Children
Research suggests that each mother/child interaction style
has different effects on the infant or young child (Field
2000). Infants of withdrawn mothers display low activity
levels, inattentiveness to people, activities, and objects,
and low expressiveness in response to the facial expressions
of adults. In contrast, infants of intrusive mothers display
higher activity levels, a mix of positive and negative facial
expressions, and high attentiveness and expressiveness in
response to the facial expressions of adults. Preschoolage
children of withdrawn mothers appear less socially
responsive, less able to regulate their own behavior and
impulses, and more inhibited. They also show internalizing
behaviors, such as liking to be alone. In contrast,
preschoolers of intrusive mothers are more responsive, more
able to regulate their behaviors, and less inhibited.
Furthermore, they are likely to show externalizing behaviors,
such as getting in fights and teasing others.
The Importance of Prevention and
Early Intervention
Even though maternal depression may have negative
developmental outcomes for children from a wide range of life
circumstances and family environments, certain factors serve
to minimize, or buffer, the effects of maternal depression on
young children. For instance, research by Hossain and
colleagues (1995) shows that involved, supportive, and
emotionally healthy fathers and child care providers cushion
children from negative effects of maternal depression.
In addition, when maternal depression
occurs in a family experiencing marital harmony, mothers are
better able to sustain positive and healthy interactions with
their children. In turn, the children are more likely to
display sound social-emotional behaviors. Recent studies also
suggest that depressed mothers who use excessive verbal
stimulation with their infants may actually facilitate better
cognitive and language development. Understimulation may be
worse than overstimulation during infancy. Furthermore, since
the effects of maternal depression begin as early as
pregnancy and appear to be long lasting, findings emphasize
the importance of early intervention.
Implications for
Programs
One of the primary goals of Early Head Start is to enhance
infants' and toddlers' overall social, emotional,
physical, cognitive, and linguistic development. Therefore,
it is vital that Early Head Start as well as other Head Start
programs promote the physical and mental health of mothers.
Programs are in a unique position to support the mental
health of pregnant women and mothers, but must be sensitive
to the barriers depressed parents experience in receiving
services.
Depression makes it difficult to mobilize
and focus energy. Many parents experience shame and fear that
professionals might see them as incapable of parenting.
However, given that parents love their children, the birth of
a child can provide the impetus to seek services to provide a
better life for the new son or daughter. In addition to
benefiting from the direct support and therapy offered them,
depressed parents are reassured knowing that their infants
and toddlers are receiving nurturance and support within
center-based or family child care programs.
By looking for brief moments of positive
interaction and reflecting on them with a parent, program
staff help build the parent's confidence. Low self-esteem
often accompanies depression and the home visitor and
center-based teacher can provide positive images and
reinforcement. For example, a home visitor could support a
depressed mother with a more demanding interaction style by
noting when the mother takes turns vocalizing with her baby
and admiring the interactions when they occur. Or, a teacher
working with a depressed mother with more withdrawn
interactions could highlight when the parent smiles or talks
in a lively way with the child.
Providing staff with access to mental
health consultation can support timely and effective referral
to mental health services. Regular, consistent mental health
consultation services are key for supporting staff and
families and can help distinguish the parent's or staff
member's normal emotional ups and downs of life from
clinical depression. A skilled mental health consultant can
help staff find ways to connect with a depressed parent as
well as support them through the parent's potential
resistance to getting help. Furthermore, the mental health
consultant acknowledges that staff and parents approach the
issue of depression, or mental health, from their own
beliefs, values, and family history with mental health
services.
* The research
discussed within this article is specific to mothers with
depression. However, the mental health of the primary and
other significant caregivers is important for the well-being
of infants and young children. [back]
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